How Do People Dress At Spanking Parties ?

I found this question and answer at Centerarticles . When I first became involved in running spanking parties , I thought the question was a bit strange . After thinking about it , it is a symptom of the lack of public understanding about consensual adult spanking . These parties are a way of spreading the word . Answering basic questions such as this one before functions makes people more likely to attend . " FAQ " style answers can be attached to party announcements and / or made into a web page :
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" I am not planning on going to one, but I am curious as to what they are all about.

Do people dress in role-playing costumes? Can you just sit and observe all the spanking around you and not participate? Do you have to pay to enter the party? Are the parties usually at a private residence?

Any answers would be appreciated. "
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baka_ota

" Having been to my fair share of spanking parties, I’ll happily answer this, though more information can be found in an essay that I posted on my spanking blog months ago. The link to my blog can be found in my profile, though it’ll take some digging to find the correct entry.Unless a party has a specific theme (like teacher/student), most people will simply wear clothes that are comfortable and casual. Spankers may tend to wear clothes that are more formal or authoritative, and spankees leans towards clothes that are loose-fitting or easily removed, allowing faster access to “bare” their bottom. Skirts are common among female spankees, with pleated “schoolgirl” skirts being the most common. Some people will dress in roleplay, though, and there are some parties devoted entirely to roleplay.

Yes, you may sit and observe if you don’t feel like playing. No one is forced to play, and many parties have the attendees wear stickers that show their orientation for the night (Top, bottom or switch) and include a designation for observer or newbie. As Phil pointed out, you may still be encouraged to play, but most people won’t be pushy if you’re new. The best parties will give a new person a chance to feel comfortable before they start playing.Most parties will have an entrance fee, or at least ask for a donation to cover costs, or that the attendees bring a covered dish to share. Obviously, parties cost money to organize, so having to pay to enter isn’t any surprise. The best parties offer the most for the least amount of cash. From what I’ve heard, Shadowlane costs far too much for what is available, and I went to a Crimson Moon party and can say that the same is true of them. The most bang for the buck, from my experience, is the Texas AllState Spanking Party, as their entrance fees are always low, yet the party is huge, particularly the years that it takes place in Dallas.

Larger parties take place at hotels or resorts, and smaller parties usually take place at private residences or rental homes or cabins. While I do enjoy the seclusion of a cabin party, there is something alluring to me about the public nature of a hotel party. I guess that I’m just a showoff, though. That’s why I have a blog about it, after all.

There are also icebreaker games to get everyone comfortable when a party starts so spanking can begin, demos, vendors, contests and special events. All parties are different, and vary according to where they’re located, who’s throwing them, and the general attitudes of those that attend. I hope this answers your question. "
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" I congratulate baka_ota on the fine answer . We have run parties over the years and each does take on a life of its own . There are some reports from parties on our Club Functions Page .

Again , I think that baka_ota has pretty much said it all . "
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These are the reports I was referring to :

PARTY REPORT 26 FEBRUARY , 1999

PARTY REPORT 25 JUNE , 1999

PARTY REPORT 30 OCTOBER , 1999

SPANKERS DELIGHT PARTY , 27 FEBRUARY , 2000

SPANKERS DELIGHT PARTY , 26 MARCH , 2000

SPANKERS DELIGHT PARTY , 28 MAY , 2000

SPANKERS DELIGHT PARTY , 25 FEBRUARY , 2001

SPANKERS DELIGHT PARTY , 29 APRIL , 2001
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