SPANKOZ SPANKING BLOG: Secret Women’s Business

Monday, May 25, 2009

Secret Women’s Business

( Note : This page was originally published to address a problem that many women have in adequately spanking men . The links at the bottom were added later to cover the whole gambit of women and spanking , including being spanked , general advice , real life stories and spanking fiction . )

( From : Clare Spanks Men , for our purposes here , he should have both legs on the bed and further twist his body to his left and a hairbrush or Jokari Paddle would be used . Not interested in men being spanked ? Great , go or scroll down to the Bun Beating Fun Update and see my very good headless friend extract just male revenge upon a selection of female miscreants . )

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If you are Australian , you will already know what I am talking about when I mention Secret Women’s Business . I have slightly modified the concept to apply to female / male spanking . If you are a spanked male ( or would like to become one ) , you may read on with the condition that you confess this fact to your female spanker BEFORE your next spanking . This technique could work with other spanking sex mixes , but there may be some physical problems . Anyway , this is more of a discussion about an " Erotic " spanking method rather than a precise set of instructions .
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Now , Dear Female Spanker , this is not for the first spanking . You need to know what he can take and be experienced in using a hairbrush and preferably a Jokari Paddle . Erotic spankings are normally long slow affairs which lead to a climax . This method is fast and is best done after sleep , when he is rested and not fully awake . The technique is to get him face down on the bed where you can either stand or kneel beside him or sit on his back . If you are able , get him across your lap .

( From Strict Women ? But keep him flat , no pillow etc. . )

( From : Women Who Punish , they are on the floor . On a bed she would sink into the mattress causing him to be more or less flat across her lap . )

( This is a more comfortable example from Lina's House Of Discipline , again a hairbrush or Jokari Paddle would be used . )

Sitting on his back maximises sensual body to body contact , gives you control and " swinging room " . If standing or kneeling , place your unused hand on the base of his spine . His back , buttocks and legs should be as flat ( i.e. straight , with nothing used to raise his body ) as possible to compact the bottom . I recommend using the Jokari style paddle because it is heavy and will produce a sensation deep inside his gluteal muscles .

( Photo may be from Hot Spankings , see : Jennifer Brooks ( www.hotspankings.com ) - SALE . )

One of the lessons I teach is how the " feel " of a paddle changes as the angle of the bottom is changed . I do this by starting with the student standing and using a constant force bring the paddle down across the middle of their bottom as they gradually bend over . I repeat this with them kneeling on a low table ( kneeling compacts the bottom muscles ) , they lean forward to the " all fours " position and eventually they will be lying flat on the table . A bed may also be used , but the student is less stable on it .

( This is from the Girls Boarding School , a narrower paddle without holes is better for teaching purposes . )

The spanking should not take very long . Aim for the middle of the bottom and use the right cheek , left cheek , centre method 3 or 4 times . The blows should not be too heavy at first , delivered vertically and have a few seconds left between them to let the effects of the spanking ( redness and heat ) start to happen . Surprise is important and will increase his reactions . This initial process may be shortened by spanking him normally earlier in the day or the night before .
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( The best effects are achieved when the cheeks are clenched , as shown here . )

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This clip ( From Sin City , which , alas , is no more - it diverts to a porn dating site ) demonstrates how the blows further compact the buttocks when the spankee's bottom is flat and the blows are almost vertical :
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The next stage is to use full force blows to produce mild swelling and deep warmth . Pause to feel his cheeks occasionally . Now he should be aroused ( if the spanking had the right balance of pleasure and pain to stimulate him ) .

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What happens next is up to you , Dear Female Spanker , keep touching or stroking where you have just spanked him . I believe that you will find his performance will be somewhat enhanced by his unexpectedly warm rear end . ( N.B. In some men the impulse to ejaculate will start in the toes and then travel up the legs to the buttocks and genitals . )

P.S. Since writing this post , I have been asked to add other items for female visitors . There is now a link to here at the top right under " SPANKOZ SPANKING BLOG INDEX , FIRST TWO POSTINGS , " LATEST FROM SPANKOZ " , Etc. " .

Does this photo appeal , maybe " Vintage " is better or should we forget photos ?